Jude Dry. It should be ongoing throughout our life, and we should honor it. The culprit: Donald Trump. Popular on Indiewire. Not at the hands of a man, or any partner for that matter, and — most importantly — with women as the masters of their own pleasure — not simply as a source of it for others. By that token, del Toro aimed to show sex in the least exploitative way possible, which extended to the ordinariness of the masturbation scenes.